In bed, I'm always glassy, highly sensitive...

People always have various emotions in bed. Today Honeyloveyou will share a state, which is a situation where emotions are relatively fragile and sensitive.

01.

Regarding sex, Alain de Burton once said: "In life, it is difficult for us not to feel a little confused about sex...

Almost everyone is surrounded by guilt and fear, plagued by various anxieties and desires, and few people can face sex in the way they want..."

Maybe on a certain night after two mermaids, you still feel a kind of incomplete satisfaction, but it seems difficult to sort out where this emotion comes from.

Such an awkward emotion seems to run through the whole sex from beginning to end. You think that when you reach the peak of sexual bliss, those feelings will fade away, but the fact is that many times they still haunt you.

So you start to look back at the beginning and process of this sex, and you suddenly find that it seems that a look or a word from the other party hurts your heart.

Or in fact, ta didn't do anything, just the thoughts in your mind and heart, some thoughts and projections, which made this sex surrounded by a touch of sadness before it even started.

No matter how long they have been in bed together, no matter how good or bad the intimacy between two people is, no matter whether they still have strong lust for each other or not.

We think that getting used to it, familiarity, and even a little boredom will make us indifferent to sex.

However, people have temperature after all, everyone has their own emotions, carefully observe a person's heart, in fact, there is a sensitive inner child living in everyone's body.

No matter how long we have been in the same bed, even if we already know each other's body well, and all the steps and feelings of sex are no longer fresh and warm, we will still have a glass heart from time to time on the bed.

For example, you will still be very sensitive to his eyes and words. When you feel inferior or anxious about your figure, when he takes off your clothes, the kind of eyes that seem to have no subconscious and a little disgust, It makes you feel stuck in your throat all of a sudden...

Or you know exactly what will happen when two people lie on the bed late at night, facing each other naked, but you still worry and fear unconsciously: Will he reject me this time?

On the bed, without the cover of the coat, the naked body is facing each other. It is the most comfortable and defenseless state of the day, and it is also sensitive and vulnerable.

Under the shroud of the night, the defense line in his heart, not to mention collapsed, is fragile.

Maybe at the moment you may not be able to notice the feeling of being stabbed in this kind of glass heart, but as time goes by, you will find that luck has already escaped from your world, and in the next few days or a period of time, You will feel a tinge of unspeakable sadness.

Being misunderstood is the fate of the expresser. On the bed, it is also a kind of physical and spiritual expression. When emotions start to appear, when projections start to grow, when sensitive hearts are pricked, free and happy sex has not yet begun. over.

02.

People are narcissistic people. Even if they don't care about each other, or even in a widowed relationship, it is difficult to completely ignore each other's feelings or completely forget their own image.

Of course, if your relationship is already widowed, it is necessary to consider whether you want to continue this relationship.

In fact, whether it is the stinging emotions caused by the eyes, words and behaviors of the partner, or some worries, fears and insecurities that only come from one's own side, there is a hidden caring.

Because I care, I become sensitive. A glance from the other party can easily stir my thoughts. Because I care, I will become more concerned about gains and losses. All seemingly reversed phenomena or emotions are actually due to the relationship. care.

Fear of being rejected, worrying that your partner dislikes your figure and has no desire for you, worrying about your performance in bed is not sexy enough, worrying about whether others are more attractive in his eyes...

All worries and sensitive emotions, all seemingly unreasonable comparisons, all hide hidden mines of mutual relationship.

The bed is undoubtedly the demon mirror of two people's intimacy, communication mode and way of getting along. It has also become the most concentrated breaking point of the glass heart.

Everything is magnified infinitely on the bed, because the body is naked, and because sex is born from the heart, it appears more sensitive and fragile. There is nowhere to hide, and a little attack can hurt each other. Leten Future Pro makes sex more harmonious and perfect, and pays more attention to each other's emotions.

When lying on the bed, we seem to return to the mother's womb. On such a hotbed, if we feel that we are treated indifferently, neglected, rejected... our hearts will immediately feel the emotion of sadness.

Physical love is the most basic love. If a person's love and desire cannot be released, or if he has not been treated and satisfied with tenderness, how can he truly pursue truth, goodness and beauty?

03.

Who better can a pricked glass heart love? For me, a good relationship, good sex itself is a kind of truth, kindness and beauty.

There is no small matter in bed, when you sort it out carefully, you will find that everything in life returns to love and desire.

Eros is the fire and light of life. It is not a trivial matter. It should not be suppressed, forced, or tamed. Eros is free, and it never accepts any secular discipline. He has his own laws.

Eros is a human instinct, an instinct of life, it is natural, and it is the energy of the body itself. It is inherent in the human body and emerges violently and irrepressibly.

In Boccaccio's view, the core of Eros is sex. In his book "Ten Days Talk", people don't see love that is separated from sex here, no matter what kind of love it is, it is combined with sex.

Beauty is also often related to sex. The reason why beauty is loved is because it inspires the beauty of the body. Only beauty can have the power of sex.

When a person reaches the climax of love, the shivering body shrinks and trembles, as if life is emitting light and screaming violently.

It would be a pity if such a beautiful and good life experience is lost because of repeated glass hearts.

What we should be vigilant or aware of is that on the bed, our inadvertent expressions or words may stir his heart, and this is actually the case with ourselves.

But when the glass heart moment inevitably comes, are we inevitably hurt?

Communication and caress can weaken or eliminate this kind of injury, although I know that whether it is to express my inner thoughts or awkward emotions, it always seems to be a difficult thing to confess in bed.

You often feel that you have a lot of thoughts, don't know what to say, or you don't know how to express these thoughts, and you want to spend time sorting them out.

In any case, I highly recommend pouring out every bit of myself, like whispering. Of course, in the process of expressing and pouring out, it is best not to have violent attacking emotions. You must know that you are talking to him Communicate, seek reassurance and integration, rather than mutual accusations and complaints.

Don't roughly divide two people into me and you, but stand more on the relationship dimension of the two of us. I also tend to be more inclined to express my feelings when talking, how do I feel, how do I feel, and what I hope you can do to make me feel better.

When my feelings are more centered, the overall atmosphere will be softer, and it will be easier to understand each other's feelings, empathize with each other better, and be more conducive to the advancement and integration of relationships.

It may be difficult at first, but slowly, you will see the surprising side.

No matter how long we have been in bed together, we will still have moments of glassy heart, but I believe that as long as we take bed seriously and empathize with our partner's feelings, we will have a satisfying relationship.

I hope you have a strong heart when it comes to sex, and I hope that you can still maintain the confidence to love yourself even when you encounter those inevitable glassy moments.

If your partner is prone to flirtatiousness, treat her with tenderness and love, too.